Leading by Relationship

by Vida Joan Gumera

Having to ‘look ahead’ and set goals, and to ‘look within’ and agree to common values is not an easy task. Taking on this task taught us independence (with thanks to Ate Abi and Kuya Ram), prompting us to be more responsible for our own actions in moving forward as a group. By voicing out our expectations and thoughts, we grew to be more attentive to each other’s needs, and learned to respect each other more.


The weekly prayer time provided an opportunity for us to grow more comfortable in praying as a group. Also, it became another avenue where we could pray for the needs of the community together. It is really wonderful to listen to what each other has to say to God.


Last semester we officers had to struggle in establishing a working relationship. We had difficulty in making decisions and executing them because all of us were very busy with other responsibilities. Despite that, God eventually led us to the solution. Now, we try to find time to meet at least once a week not only to discuss work, but also for updates on what’s happening at each other’s end.



Needless to say, this academic year has been one big opportunity for me, and for us to grow more supportive of each other’s strengths and more understanding with each other’s lapses.



(Vida is now a 4th year Electrical Engineering student.She serves as the Vice Chair for Internal Affairs of UPD Navs. She’s actually a member of the family Von Trapp.)